Soul lessons disguised as Soulmates š·
- Muskan Sharma
- Sep 24, 2020
- 3 min read

Not everyone you meet is meant to be in your life. Sometimes you meet people in your life that are preparing you for someone else. š
This helps you evolve as a soul by going through experiences with them that force you into becoming your empowered self, finding your soul purpose, breaking generational patterns or traumas and healing yourself. šš»
By experiencing the contrast of what you want with them, the desire to experience what you truly want grows stronger in you. You are pushed in the direction of your true soul path and discover what you really want in your partner and in life. By being in a loop of suffering with them, you learn how to break yourself free. š¦

You may have chosen a partner on your journey that represents your shadow self because facing your shadow will catalyse your maximum expansion. You may name this person as narcissistic, sociopathic or lost because of the darkness they represent in your relationship with them. Know that itās not about the person but the wisdom that will act as a tool for your future relationship. š
Your higher self knew what you were getting yourself into and thatās why the universe allowed it to happen even though it broke your heart and may experience a wound that you feel like you can never heal from. But by healing yourself, you discover your self healing abilities. š
Focus on the lesson, focus on the pain that is meant to become your power to strive for an extraordinary life and become the highest version of yourself i.e. Y
In this process, your higher self or the universe breaks you open by teaching you how to let go off control and flow in the direction of the person thats truly meant for you. When you fight for love, respect and loyalty for too long and expect it from the wrong person, you awaken to the love within yourself and stop searching it outwards. By improving your state of being and embodying self love, you become a vibrational match to your higher reflection or soul mate. ā„ļø

The universe fights to bring people together in such an effortless and graceful manner that crumbling away of old connections not only seems obvious but becomes inevitable. āØš®āØ
Invisible cords connect people beyond the physical reality. This is why, even if you feel like you havenāt met your ātrue soulmateā, if you connect with the love within your heart, youāll feel their formless energy taking over your body. The path isnāt a straight line, ITS A SPIRAL that require you to GO WITHIN. ššš»š
Hence you should learn to drop the guilt around relationships that donāt work instead of forcing them to work by sticking to it like an building thatās exploding in fire of inevitability. Drop the belief that there something wrong with you. āØ

An authentic relationship will help you work in yourself and embody more self love. And all the beliefs you had that thereās something wrong with you will fade away in the mist of their unconditional love and presence. š
A real relationship will have you believing in yourself and your life will drastically improve with them. They will take you in as your vulnerable self and embrace it. šŗ
You wouldnāt need to tip toe around this person or walk in your high heels, just to impress them or keep them in your life. Youāll be able to drop your shields and feel safe and loved for it. ā¤ļø
The only thing that youāll need to keep them in your life is to work on your part of the relationship, keep loving yourself and keep being a happier, healthier and healing version of yourself. Youāll grow together by watering each other and genuinely rooting for each other to shine. ā„ļøšŗā„ļø
Much love. Stay blessed.





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